
Yesterday marked the end of my 30-day abstinence from social media. Simultaneously, I had drastically curbed my consumption of cable news and texting. I say "the end" but it's day 31 now and I have not gone back to mindlessly logging in to Twitter for the simple reason that I don't want to. I also called my sons--on the telephone--to invite them to Easter dinner, because I wanted to hear their voices, not read a typed response. This experiment began immediately after I read Cal Newport's
book,
Digital Minimalism, Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World. Newport is not some flaky self-help guru, he's a computer science professor, so I found his perspective particularly compelling. I read the entire work on a flight from Seattle to Houston and there was a section that gave voice to the essence of what we're trying to do on the farm. We are building a 4,400 square foot structure that includes a commercial kitchen for preparing the food we grow and for classes and team-building events, a spacious workshop, and a large room upstairs for community gatherings. The living quarters for this structure are a small part of the design, so essentially, it's a one-bedroom house with a very large play area. Terrible for resale. Except that that isn't the goal; it's about creating an environment for genuine human interaction, real communication instead of the false promise of connection through Facebook "Friends" and "Likes." In Newport's chapter "
Reclaim Leisure," he offers three lessons for a more satisfying life:
"Prioritize demanding activity over passive consumption," "Use skills to produce valuable things in the physical world," "Seek activities that require real-world, structured social interactions." If I had to write a mission statement for this
Agrihood, I could not do better than that.